Not many are aware that Burnett was thought to be unsuitable for TV. Originally, producers had little faith in her talent, saying she was “too big” and “too loud.”

After Burnett spontaneously performed with her fellow drama students at a party for a departing professor, Burnett was approached by a man she’s never met before, who offered her $1000 to get her acting career started. The man had three terms for the loan: she’d have to pay him back in 5 years, never reveal his identity and pay the favor forward when she makes it big. After thinking things over the weekend, Burnett ignored her mother’s advise to steer clear of the stranger and accepted his check.

Not many know that Mama’s Family, the sketch spin-off from The Carol Burnett Show, actually started off being a lot darker off-sketch. “The Reunion,” a sketch which originally aired in 1974, featured the characters that ultimately became known as “The Family.” In this original installment, Roddy McDowall acted as Phillip Harper, a successful man and younger brother of Eunice who had just returned home after winning a Pulitzer Prize. The family members were a lot crotchetier and more bad-tempered than the cartoon-like characters they eventually became on the syndicated series Mama’s Family.

Vicki Lawrence was told from a young age that she resembled Burnett, especially due to her “pixie” cut. Lawrence’s pushy mother nagged her daughter to send a fan letter to Burnett with attachments of a photo of herself and a newspaper article mentioning Vicki’s upcoming appearance in the Miss Fireball Contest. Vicki did so, and much to her surprise, a seven-months-pregnant Burnett showed up at the pageant, cheering her on. When Burnett gave birth, the nurse mistook visiting Vicki as Burnett’s sister and exclaimed, “Wait until you see the baby!”

Joe Hamilton, the producer, and husband of Burnett was looking for an attractive, “Rock Hudson-type” when picking the commentator for the show. When he came across Former encyclopedia salesman Lyle Waggoner, it did not take long for Hamilton to choose the good-looking man, since there was more to him than good genes. In fact, Waggoner had a healthy sense of humor and often made jokes about his appearance, sometimes touching sensitive subjects like how he was teased for posing for the centerfold of Playgirl magazine’s premiere issue in 1973.

Every week viewers sat in front of the TV to watch their favorite show and would have perplexed expressions on their faces as Carol Burnett would tug at her earlobe at the end of every show. Some speculated that the odd gesture was a stage cue, but as it turns out, the peculiar tug was a message for Burnett’s grandmother, as if to say “Hello, I love you.” Burnett’s grandmother passed while the show was still on the air, but the star continued with the gesture.

Burnett’s mother was not keen on her daughter becoming an actress, and pushed her from a young age to follow a different path – become a writer. Burnett painfully recalled in an interview she gave later in life that whenever she would express an interest in a career in the theater, her mom would always discourage her and urge that she would become a writer, as it is a safer choice than acting. “You can always write, no matter what you look like,” her mom would say.

The Carol Burnett Show consisted of numerous bloopers, but three are considered exemplars to this day: the first is seen in “The Dentist Sketch”, where Harvey Korman was incapable of keeping a straight face with Tim Conway. The second was in the game Sorry, as Vicki Lawrence went off script completely, thus inducing Carol Burnett to lose it in both tapings – and the third and most well-known one was called “The Elephant Story”: Tim Conway dragged on a story about two elephants, causing every cast member to fall to pieces.

Burnett was shopping at Bergdorf Goodman in New York for stockings, but when she was ready to check out, Burnett realized that her credit card and driver’s license were missing from her wallet. Burnett asked if writing a check would be acceptable, but the saleswoman replied, “I’ll have to see some ID,” despite having recognized Burnett a few minutes earlier and asking for an autograph. The floor manager stepped in and said her check would be accepted if Burnett could do her Tarzan yell. Burnett quickly complied.

The Carol Burnett Show was unique in more ways than one, but the Q&A at the beginning was an odd one from the rest. What few people know is that it was pitched by Joe Hamilton, who was the show’s executive producer and Burnett’s husband. It’s traditional to have a stand-up comedian go onstage and warm up the audience with jokes before the show. But Joe was, “worried, [thinking] ‘What if the guy is funnier than the rest of you?’” So he resolved to a Q&A as an ice-breaker.

Carol Burnett was known to tick off the show’s writers, as she did when she asserted Vicki Lawrence was not given enough funny lines. Vicki recalled this moment, saying she asked Burnett “I do [need funnier lines]?” To which Carol responded, “Hush now, yes you do.” However, her persistence led two members of the writing staff to storm out in disapproval. Vicki said on her own TV Show in the 90’s regarding Burnett that “we all know who took me under her wing.”

Mrs. Wiggins’ wriggly walk was a well-recognized one on set. Although some actors take pride in the personification process of their character, the truth is that it was a wardrobe malfunction that was responsible for the odd walk. While ditzy secretary Mrs. Wiggins tried on her outfit, Burnett protested that her skirt was too big. In order to keep the item attached, Burnett extended her behind by arching her back, which resulted in Mrs. Wiggins’ amusing and iconic walk.

Actors have different techniques when it comes to going into character, but Carol Burnett and Vicki Lawrence were never common in anything they have done. As a matter of fact, the dynamic duo found the characters of The Family sketches and their voices while they were in the restroom, yelling at each other. Carol and Vicki reportedly gave each other excited high fives after this scream-off that made many unsuspecting ladies run away from the stalls, saying this is going to be a huge hit.

Harvey Korman was the first cast member to join The Carol Burnett Show. Korman fit the producers’ description of a “Harvey Korman-type” for Burnett’s second banana, but the thought of actually having Korman join the show didn’t even cross their minds, seeing as how the actor already was a regular on The Danny Kaye Show. In an utter Burnett-fashion, the star of the show spotted Korman in the CBS parking and “practically threw him over the hood of a car” begging him to join her show. The rest was history.

While Lawrence gained her place on the show through a well-written fan letter, other aspiring artists weren’t as lucky. The show could have been Jim Carrey’s big break, as when he was at the young age of ten, the future Liar, Liar and Ace Ventura star actor sent a copy of his resume to the producers of The Carol Burnett Show, hoping he would be discovered and asked to audition for the show. Unfortunately, the comedian didn’t quite fit the script.

Each and every episode of the show was taped twice, but not for the reason you may think. In the first taping, Conway would follow a script, but since his undeniable need to improvise, he was only allowed to do so during the second taping. Burnett said of her co-star that, “we had no idea what he was going to do,” which is why there needed to be a “professional take,” just in case the cast would crack up and not be able to continue the scene.

Despite the often bursts of laughter, not everyone was happy with Conway’s improvisations and tendency to go off script. One time, Vicki found out the comedian was planning on changing the “Family” sketch, and her husband convinced her this was her opportunity to get even. And so, when her co-star was rambling about the elephant story, Lawrence turned from him and snapped with the infamous ad-lib, “You sure that little a**hole’s through?” Needless to say, everyone on set was crying with laughter after this comeback.

Conway created the Mr. Tudball/Mrs. Wiggins characters, and consequently wrote many of their sketches. Not many people know that originally, Mrs. Wiggins was written in as a character that was ancient, slow, and forgetful. However, it was Bob Mackie, the costume designer, who decided that Burnett played too many “old lady” characters on the show as it was, and resolved to do the exact opposite with this one. Mackie turned Mrs. Wiggins into a voluptuous, ditzy woman, and even admitted he was inspired by the CBS secretaries he met.

Designer Mackie has made many glamorous gowns for the most renowned celebrities, but much to his dismay, the most memorable piece he has ever made was a “joke” garment seen in a Gone with the Wind parody. The Carol Burnett Show’s hilarious scene involved Carol descending the stairs at Tara while wearing green velvet drapes with the curtain bar still in them. “I saw it in a window, and I couldn’t resist,” she said, and to this day, the “dress” is hung and eternalized in the Smithsonian.

Harvey Korman left The Carol Burnett Show at the end of season 10 since he was offered his own show (which was later canceled after only five episodes), but the show landed a very promising replacement – Dick Van Dyke. Surprisingly, the man was not a very good fit. Burnett put it best by saying that “When Harvey put on a wig and a dress, he became a woman; when Dick Van Dyke did it, he was Dick Van Dyke in a wig and a dress.”

Although the talented actors knew how to manipulate their audience very well, some things cannot be faked no matter how hard you try. Tim Conway learned this the hard way, as while the cast was filming a sketch on a submarine, he got pinned under the periscope and appeared to be in a lot of pain. This was the intention behind the scene, but Conway wasn’t acting. The day before he had a vasectomy, and the periscope actually hit him in the groin during taping.

When Conway was in the Army, he had some work done on his teeth. At the time, the dentist missed Conway’s mouth and accidentally injected his own thumb with Novocain. Conway did what many comedians do in such a situation and used the horrible experience as inspiration for a hilarious skit that left Harvey Korman struggling to hide his laughter. In 2013, Conway was interviewed by Conan O’Brien and revealed that Korman actually wet himself from laughing so hard.

The Carol Burnett Show writers Dick Clair and Jenna McMahon created “The Family” sketch. McMahon, a Kansas City native, envisioned the Harpers to be a typical Midwestern bunch. However, the minute Burnett lay her hands on the script, all she could hear was her own Texan and Arkansan family members speaking. Immediately, Burnett began delivering the lines with a pronounced Southern accent, and Vicki Lawrence soon followed her mentor, echoing the same suit. The writers were not too sure about the change at first, but it proved to be successful.

Burnett may have had a reputation of a comedian who did not have any boundaries when it came to cracking jokes, but she proved that the queen of comedy herself also knows where to draw the line when threatened to fire Harvey Korman for being rude to guests such as Tim Conway and Petula Clark. Apparently, Burnett was dead serious when she told Korman that while she could put up with him being rude to her, he should never be rude to the guests.

Much like in sports, superstitions are a major thing when it comes to those who dedicate their lives to the stage or performing in front of others. For this reason precisely, Carol Burnett took matters that had to do with the success of her show very seriously. For example, Burnett had actor Jim Nabors appear on the premiere episode of the show, and since it proved to be tremendously successful, she decided he must be a guest performer for each season’s first show, as he was her “good luck charm”.

If there is one thing The Carol Burnett Show never managed to accomplish was scoring the desired rating it desperately wanted. Critics listed the show as one of the best television programs of all time, but from the moment it aired in 1967 to 1978, the series was not a ratings juggernaut, despite the fact that the show peaked at No. 13 in the Nielsen ratings during the 1969-1970 season. No matter how successful it was, the show consistently ranked in the 20s for the first nine seasons and never made it to the top 10.

During its 11 seasons, nearly every “Who’s Who” of the entertainment industry had a guest appearance of the show. From Ronald Reagan to Steve Martin, to Julie Andrews and Robin Williams – all had an incredible time on set. The only guest Burnett profoundly aspired to have but never managed to land was Bette Davis, since the talent demanded more money than the show had budgeted. The exception could have been made, but this would have set an unpleasant precedent, said executive producer Joe Hamilton.

50 year after the saddening end everyone’s favorite show, rare episodes that have never been seen before are finally released online. Fans of The Carol Burnett Show, the show that debuted on CVS in September of 1967, were over the moon once news hit the fan about the return of the tremendously successful show that ran for 11 years and is fondly remembered to this day by countless viewers from around the world. During the fall of 2017, more than 15 million viewers tuned in to watch the 50th Anniversary Special.

Although this might disappoint some, the show has not started filming again, nor has a new script been drafted for anything of that sort in the future, but rather the original show and cast is returning to the air, as was announced by CBS Television Distribution (CTD) in a press release issued on January 16, 2018. Apparently, CTD acquired the digital multicast rights for all 11 seasons of the show, and they fully intend on streaming everything online, to make the show accessible to the younger generation too.

Carol Burnett’s daughter Carrie was diagnosed with lung cancer from a young age. Carrie smoked cigarettes ever since her early teen years, which led to a lengthy period of using illegal, addictive substances and severe drinking. She bounced back and refrained from further usage when she was fifteen. Except for a brief relapse two years later seventeen, Carrie remained substance-free for the rest of her life – until her untimely death. Her mother, Carol, shared how the premature loss affected her for all eternity.

People magazine revealed Carole’s daughter’s battle with medication addiction with a front page cover reading: “Carole Burnett’s nightmare” in October 1979. Burnett apparently sent emails to “all of Carrie’s friends,” where she wrote: “I feel so helpless (because I am) … Aren’t mommies supposed to kiss it and make it all better? I wish I could go through this for her.” Carrie had not let go of hope and believed she would heal, even when she was told her tumors had spread and there wasn’t much else to do.

In her diary entry from January 3, 2002, Carol wrote the following: “I can’t lose my baby. Please no, please no, please NO! God are you there?” From that point on, Carrie’s health deteriorated rapidly, and on January 20, 2002, she passed away. Burnett told CBS that her entire family went into shock following the loss. “You never get over it, but I’ve learned to cope. You have no other choice,” she wrote in her touching memoir. Burnett added that the script she started with her daughter gave her the strength to move on.

Carol was asked if she ever heard from the benefactor who loaned her money to pursue her dream again, to which she replied: “I paid him back, five years to the day, just as he’d asked. Years later, when I was doing the Burnett Show, his wife called the office and said, ‘If you ever get down to San Diego, we’d like to take you and your husband to lunch.’ I was so thrilled. We went and had lunch, and he was kind of quiet, reserved, but very nice.”

Carol went on with her touching tale, saying: “As we were walking back to our car, his wife took hold of my arm and said, ‘You know, when your name comes up in conversation, or if you’re on television and other people are around, he doesn’t say anything. He just smiles.'” Burnett managed to keep his name under wraps all this time. “It was their secret. He died a few years later, but I’ve never revealed his name, not even to my kids, because that was a promise.”

Burnett didn’t always have things going her way, but she always knew how to handle the rejection in a mature way. “You have to have the fire in the belly and don’t take anything personally when they don’t pick you,” she said. “I remember auditioning in New York, and I was with another girl, and it was between us. She got the role, and I said to myself, ‘It was her turn. And my turn will come.'” And it did.

Carol Burnett is now 84-years-old. The question she gets asked most often if she misses her show, and if she ever considers returning to TV ever again. “Well, you can’t go back again,” she said. “We did what we did. You try to do something like that again, and it wouldn’t work. I’m just happy I was there, the age that I was, the time that I was. I don’t [necessarily] miss it, but I’m nostalgic at times when I think back to all the fun we had.”

Growing up, Carol did not intend on becoming a stage performer. She does not consider herself a funny person, which is why she didn’t consider, not even for a split second, becoming a stand-up comedian once The Carol Burnett Show ended. When she was young, she knew her artistic side was the dominant one and dreamt of becoming a successful cartoonist. “I have my own comic strip!” she confessed, saying she gave up on that dream but still draws for pure enjoyment.

Surprisingly, Carol Burnett admitted she is not a major fan of network television, saying it was not her cup of tea. When she does have spare time, however, she enjoys spending it in front of the TV but chooses to binge watch cable television shows. Her favorite shows include “Orange Is the New Black and House of Cards on Netflix. The Newsroom also.” It is interesting that none of these shows are comic ones, which goes to show Carol does not relate to the type of humor the present generation connects to.

It’s no secret that comedy these days is very different to what it used to be. Carol herself has too owned up to feeling rather confused about the seemingly common trend to use vulgar language and make crude jokes just to get a couple of giggles out of the crowd. “I’m not a prude,” she explained, “if somebody gets raunchy in their act, I don’t mind it if they’re playing a character, somebody who talks that way – but it’s just too easy to get a laugh with a four-letter word.”

Still, there is no denying it is a lot easier to make the audience laugh by being vulgar than coming up with witty jokes, or sayings that have sarcastic undertones and much subtext. “It’s a lot harder to get laughs and not be raunchy,” she went on. “If you look at Ellen [DeGeneres], she did a wonderful one-woman show a few years ago, and there wasn’t one raunchy thing. Like Bill Cosby years ago, she’s a storyteller. They just know how to say things funny.”

Age is just a number, but there is no denying Carol Burnett has reached a certain one where most people slow down. However, Burnett is not about to let anything dictate how she should feel or behave. Her youthful heart and fun spirit make her seem years younger than her actual age, but it takes hard work to make sure her physique is in line with how fresh she feels. “It’s all about keeping busy,” she explained in an interview.

Still, Burnett is not the skipping young woman she used to be. “Lately I’ve been feeling like I’ve been shot out of a cannon, with all this book stuff. And I do Pilates, I eat pretty well and take my vitamins. I do the New York Times crossword puzzle every morning to keep the old grey matter ticking. But I guess it’s also about attitude.” If anyone close to the actress were to be asked how old they believe Carol is, they probably wouldn’t have given her a day over 50.

But Carol Burnett has never been the common girl next door. She never fit with the stigmas or pretended to be someone she is not so that she would fit into the crowd. Burnett herself made a point to stress out that she is not willing to give up on what makes her feel good, just because that’s what social norms dictate. Even when it came to her diet, Burnett explained that while she is “not eating a lot,” she does indulge in good food.

Burnett once shocked her fans when she bluntly dismissed actress and singer Kristin Chenoweth, saying she is not one to keep track of her outfits or pay too much attention to what she wears. Chenoweth asked her where she got her outfit, to which Carol replied, “Oh, I don’t know! I think it’s like 40 years old!” Needless to say, no interviewer thought to question something like Burnett’s clothing ever again. The woman always put her talents and vibrant personality first and foremost, which she does to this day.

Carol Burnett herself chimed in at the press conferenced, and was beaming with pride and joy when she said, “I’m thrilled to be back home at CBS, and I’m so happy that future generations will be able to see and enjoy the fun we had in those 11 wonderful years.” There are rumors about a reunion that might occur in the future, but for now, fans are going to have to settle for these online episodes. If you ask us, that’s a pretty good deal!

Cary Grant, born Archibald Alec Leach, came from humble beginnings in Bristol, England, before setting off on a career as a performer that would culminate in his being one of Hollywood’s most sought-after leading actors. Despite his charming outward appearance, however, Cary Grant was a very troubled man. Much of this is rooted in his childhood, with lies and abandonment from his father. It was only later in life that Grant would discover the truth. Recent memoirs published by his ex-wife and daughter finally shed some light and dispel the mystery surrounding this mysterious man, with some of the details sounding completely unreal.

There is no greater example of a celebrity portraying themselves far differently in public and private than Cary Grant, as testimony by some of those closest to him proves. Cary Grant will be remembered as one of Hollywood’s greatest actors, whose ageless good looks and on-screen charms made him a favorite of audiences. Memoirs published recently by Cary Grant’s daughter and fourth wife, however, reveal a much more complicated and human individual than we previously knew.

Although he was English, which is a generally pale nation, Cary Grant always appears on film looking very well-tanned. This isn’t makeup — in fact, he didn’t wear makeup very much at all. That’s his actual tan, which he maintained constantly. Besides his year-long tan, Cary Grant worked hard on making sure he stayed good-looking. He never weighed more than 180 pounds as well, which shows that his commitment to looking good was something he held onto until his final years.

In one funny incident, Cary Grant was with fellow English actor Michael Caine in Los Angeles, having a conversation outside of a hotel when a fan approached them. She only recognized Caine. After telling him how she had been in town for two weeks and Caine was the first star she had seen, the fan turned to Grant and commented on how you never see big Hollywood stars. When Grant heard this, he agreed with the fan, laughing.

You may know that Cary Grant was offered the part of James Bond in Dr. No before the role went to Sean Connery. Apparently, Grant didn’t think that the role was right for him, as he was 58 by then. Ian Flemming, who created the character, said that the basis for the classic spy was none other than Grant himself. This was based on his characters for the movies Notorious, To Catch A Thief, and North By Northwest, to name a few.

Faced with problems at home, Grant found solace in the performing arts. He had been awarded a scholarship to Fairfield Grammar School before getting expelled at the age of 13. Almost immediately, he joined a comedy troupe, performing in both England and the U.S. He landed a role in the 1927 Broadway musical Golden Dawn. This paved the way for more roles on the stage, many of which garnered acclaim by the critics of the day. Eventually, he signed with Paramount Pictures in 1931.

Once at Paramount, its executives confronted Cary Grant about his name. “Archie just doesn’t sound right in America,” one of them told Grant, who had to admit: “It doesn’t sound particularly right in Britain, either.” He suggested “Cary Lockwood,” but Paramount felt the last name was too similar to other surnames in the industry. Going down a list of potential names, the famous actor stopped at Grant, and Cary Grant was born. He changed his name legally to Cary Grant in 1941.

Although he would be later regarded as the archetype for a successful Hollywood actor, Cary Grant actually failed his first screen test. Fox Film Corporation gave him this in 1928 after talent scouts spotted him, with the intention of casting him in a movie they were making. He failed this test, though, because he was deemed to have too thick of a neck and be bowlegged. While he missed the silent era of movies, he was able to find success once studios moved on to talkies.

His first role on-screen was the 1932 comedy This is the Night, the first of a string of successful roles. He quickly established himself as a suave, handsome lead in movies such as Merrily Go to Hell, Hot Saturday, and Madame Butterfly. He acted alongside Mae West for her 1933 film She Done Him Wrong followed by I’m No Angel. She credited herself with having discovered him, despite his having starred in previous Hollywood movies. The following movies failed in the box office, however, threatening to end his career.

Refusing to be deterred, Grant’s perseverance paid off eventually. The comedy The Awful Truth was released in 1937, beginning a string of hits. Benjamin Schwarz, a critic for The Atlantic, called this “the most spectacular run ever for an actor in American pictures.” In the years following, he starred in Bringing Up Baby and The Philadelphia Story, which are counted among the greatest comedies ever. He received two Academy Award nominations for Best Actor for Penny Serenade in 1941 and None But the Lonely Heart in 1944.

Interestingly enough, Cary Grant never played a villain. This was because the studio didn’t want the audience to associate him with anything negative. The only exception is Alfred Hitchcock’s 1941 film Suspicion, in which he plays a husband whose wife thinks he’s going to kill her. But in the end, he turns out not to be a villain at all. According to Hitchcock, the studio had ordered the film’s ending changed so that Grant’s “heroic” image would be preserved.

Grant attracted the attention of legendary filmmaker Alfred Hitchcock, who selected Grant to star in many of his greatest classics. These include To Catch a Thief alongside Grace Kelly, Suspicion, and North By Northwest. Just like Hitchcock, however, he never won an Oscar for one of his movies. He didn’t win a Golden Globe, despite being nominated for Best Actor five times in a six-year period. It has been noted that he wasn’t the kind of actor to win an Academy Award because he made it look too effortless.

Cary Grant didn’t serve directly in World War II, though he received the Kings Medal for Services in the Cause of Freedom. He was allegedly hired to spy on both his fellow actors and his wife, Barbara Woolworth Hutton, at the time of the war.  The Woolworth family was one of the richest families and were believed to lend support to the fascists. In addition, Grant donated his complete paycheck from two movies to the war effort.

Grant’s daughter, Jennifer, was born in 1966, the same year he decided to put acting aside and retire. He refocused his attention on the business world and joined the board of directors for the now-defunct cosmetics company, Fabergé. Although this was believed to be a ceremonial appointment, many were surprised to see a shrewd businessman. He later served on other such boards, including Hollywood Park (later Pinnacle Entertainment) and Western Airlines, which merged with Delta in 1987. He was made a director of MGM Studios in 1975.

Although he stopped acting altogether after his daughter was born, he had actually stopped appearing in motion pictures in 1952. He believed that the method acting by the likes of James Dean and Marlon Brando was overtaking Cary Grant’s more traditional approach. In addition, he wanted to protest how Charlie Chaplin was shunned by Hollywood for his liberal beliefs. Despite this, Alfred Hitchcock was able to convince him to come out of retirement to film To Catch A Thief.

For North by Northwest, written by screenwriter Ernest Lehman to be “the Hitchcock picture to end all Hitchcock pictures,” Hitchcock himself selected Grant instead of Jimmy Stewart. Even though Stewart was another popular actor Hitchcock loved to cast in leading roles, the director blamed Vertigo’s poor performance on Stewart looking old, apparently. Despite Grant being four years older than Stewart in real life, it’s hard to imagine anyone but Grant playing the lead role in that iconic movie.

During the last few years of his life, Grant would tour cities for A Conversation With Cary Grant. He would screen clips of his films in cities and answer questions asked by the audience. It was ahead of such an appearance that Grant suffered a stroke in November of 1986. He died shortly afterward and his ashes were scattered in the Atlantic Ocean. He left the majority of his estate to his daughter, Jennifer, and wife, Barbara Harris. He was worth somewhere between $60 and $80 million. But that wasn’t the last the world heard of him…

Barbara Harris may have been married to Grant when he died, but she was actually the fifth woman he married. Grant first married Virginia Cherrill in 1934, but he was accused of domestic abuse and the pair split. In 1942, he married Barbara Hutton, who was counted among the world’s richest women at the time. They broke up in 1945. In 1949, Grant married fellow actress Betsy Drake, and the two remained married for 12 and a half years, which is quite long in Hollywood.

This divorce was in no small part due to an affair Grant began with Sophia Loren, his costar on The Pride And The Passion and Houseboat, the latter actually being written by Drake. Grant’s next wife was Dyan Cannon, whom he married in 1965. She was another fellow actress and gave birth to his only child, Jennifer, in 1966. After retiring, Grant divorced Cannon in 1968. He continued seeking, however, and eventually married a hotel public relations agent, Barbara Harris, in 1981. The two remained together until his death.

Regarding his marriages, Cary Grant would comment on his difficulties. “It seems that each new marriage is more difficult to survive than the last one,” he said. “I’m rather a fool for punishment. I keep going back for more, don’t ask me why.” While that may be the case, don’t forget that he was together with his last wife, Barbara Harris, from their marriage in 1981 until his death from a stroke in 1986.

After many marriages and affairs, Grant’s friend Prince Ranier of Monaco said Grant was finally happier than he had ever seen him during his last marriage. This took a lifetime of trial and error, however. In the 2017 documentary Becoming Cary Grant, Grant says his marriage to Cherrill was bound to fail. “I doubt if either of us was relaxed enough to trust what we had,” he recalled. “My possessiveness and fear of losing her brought about the very thing I had feared: the loss of her.”

In 2011, Dyan Cannon, his fourth wife, published Dear Cary, a memoir about their time together. She said that although she had really liked dating Grant at the beginning of their relationship, she eventually noticed a dark streak. He was demanding and controlling, she said, as he told her to give up her dream of acting and to change how she looked. After their divorce, Cannon’s career did better. She was nominated for no less than three Academy Awards, despite his criticism.

In her book, Cannon describes a change in Grant’s attitude, which happened to occur after he had proposed to her. “He’d started criticizing my appearance and was agitated on our wedding day,” she wrote. “The following day, my ring finger started to swell up and we had to find a plumber to blowtorch my wedding ring off. If that wasn’t a sign, I don’t know what was.” It would be interesting to hear if his other wives had similar stories!

The issues didn’t end with their wedding and continued into their marriage. During Cannon’s pregnancy with her and Grant’s daughter, Jennifer, there were reportedly additional problems. As Cannon describes it in her memoir, “By the time I was pregnant, [Grant] had also withdrawn from me physically – which is hard because, before that, we had been all over each other. Things became polite, almost cold, between us.” Even though Grant was delighted with Jennifer and was an adoring father, Cannon reveals it wasn’t enough to save their marriage.

One of the most shocking things about Cary Grant is his use of a popular psychedelic compound, which he discovered when it was still legal. He suffered from depression and underwent many experimental sessions as part of his therapy. He encouraged Cannon to take it as well to save their marriage, although she said she hated it.  “When we split up,” Cannon recalled, “I was terribly depressed. I had a breakdown and ended up in a psychiatric hospital – the doctors said it had contributed to my mental state.”

Before becoming a household name, Cary Grant was born in Bristol, England, by the name of Archibald Leach. The young Englishman eventually made his way to the U.S. where he built up a career as a performer. Soon he rose to become one of its Hollywood’s greatest stars, working alongside the industry greats during what is known as the Golden Age of Hollywood. Although he never won an Oscar for any of his performances, he was awarded an honorary one to commemorate his lifetime of work. However, while garnering huge success on-screen, many did not know what was going on behind the camera for Cary Grant.

Outwardly, Grant seemed confident and happy, but performing was a way for him to escape childhood problems that followed him to adulthood. When he was 31, he discovered that the mother he thought had died two decades earlier was still alive, committed in a psychiatric hospital in England. When Betsy Drake, his third wife, left him, he began taking recreational drugs in treatments with a psychiatrist. He said that due to the mind-altering drug, he “went through rebirth” and reportedly could confront his issues. When he died, he even left the doctor overseeing the treatments $10,000.

Dyan Cannon isn’t the only one who has written about her relationship with the Hollywood legend. Although she was only around for the last two decades of his life, Grant’s only daughter, Jennifer, also published a book about their relationship in the 2011 book Good Stuff: A Reminiscence of My Father. Grant was described as quite an authoritarian figure about certain things, along with the love and affection. Specifically, this related to makeup; she recalls getting into major trouble for having some eyeshadow in her room that Grant discovered.

Grant had a reputation for being cheap, but Jennifer disputes this. “I always found him generous to a fault but he wasn’t reckless with his money, which was rather rare in Hollywood. He’d grown up with nothing and he wasn’t about to fritter it all away. His attitude was he knew he could walk into any shop and buy whatever he wanted. He just didn’t have to. That taught me the proper value of money.” That’s no surprise, as he came from humble beginnings.

Grant’s peers, on the other hand, describe him as extremely careful with money. One rumor said he was so cheap, he’d cut the buttons off his old shirts before he disposed of them. When asked about it, he didn’t deny it. In fact, he told the interviewer that he preferred to keep the extra buttons and that he wouldn’t have to worry about his furniture getting scratched if his maid used the shirts as rags. “I think it’s a very sensible procedure and should be adopted as a household tip,” he said.

Rosalind Russell, a friend of Grant’s and costar of his 1940 movie His Girl Friday, was having dinner with him in 1957 when his Rolls Royce came up. After mentioning he had one “just like it” in London, Grant remembered that Russell was going to London. She confirmed that she indeed was, and Grant generously offered to let her use the luxury vehicle. Russell’s delight turned to dismay, however, when Grant told his longtime friend to call his agents in London for the “rental fee and the cost of the chauffeur.”

Grant’s childhood was not easy. When he was only nine years old, his father had his mother admitted to a psychiatric hospital. She was depressed, and Grant’s father, who resorted to drinking to deal with his issues, didn’t handle it the best way possible for his son. He told Grant that his mother had died, although this turned out to be an outright lie. When Grant was 31, he discovered that she was very much alive. Meanwhile, his father had abandoned his son and to begin a new family with a new wife.

According to people who knew him in his schoolboy days, Grant liked to make trouble at Fairfield Grammar School, despite being bright enough to be awarded a scholarship. Teachers thought he was a “scruffy little boy,” remembering him for being disruptive and not doing his homework. This sort of behavior is sure to get a student on the teachers’ bad side, and his scholarship couldn’t save him. The straw that broke the camel’s back, allegedly, was when he snuck into the girls’ bathroom, foreshadowing a life of lechery.

It’s quite hard to spot, but Cary Grant actually only had one front incisor. What happened to the other one? It turns out that the other was chipped when he was a little boy playing on the ice. To avoid getting into trouble, he went to a dental college where they completely removed the tooth. His father apparently never noticed. Over time, Grant’s other teeth shifted and closed over the gap.

Other rumors said Grant was gay, but neither Jennifer nor Dyan said they saw any sign of this. “Perhaps he had what Virginia Woolf described as ‘an androgynous mind,'” Jennifer offered. In response to her mother’s description of Grant’s “dark side,” Jennifer noted that “She was his wife. I was his daughter. The relationships are quite different. It was lovely to read about their romance, but the details of their dissolution were difficult. Sadly, he’s no longer around to give his perspective on their marriage. He never wrote an autobiography.”

Although Grant left no autobiography or memoir, others besides Dyan have opened up, alleging that there was more truth than fiction to claims he was gay. Orry-Kelly, an Australian costume designer, met Grant in January 1925 and Grant moved in soon after. Both would achieve fame in Hollywood, Grant as an actor and Kelly as a set designer, but Kelly was actually the Australian with the most Oscar wins until recently. As Kelly’s recently-released memoir Women I’ve Undressed tells, Grant left Kelly chronically broken-hearted.

Fellow costume designer Catherine Martin beat out Kelly when she won her fourth Oscar, but he held the national record for over 50 years. He passed away in 1964, and Grant was notably one of his pallbearers. If you’re asking why it was years before his memoirs were published, it’s because they were found in a pillowcase. Until then, we didn’t have his account of when he was struggling to make it and met Grant. The two allegedly began an on-again, off-again relationship for three decades, and Grant tried to hide this.

Grant and Kelly were business partners as well as lovers, Women I’ve Undressed alleges. The costume designer would sell ties he made by hand, and Grant — then still known as Leach — would sell them at vaudeville shows backstage. The pair also dabbled in vice, opening up a speakeasy in Manhattan during Prohibition as well as a casino in Nevada. They were unable to pay protection money to the mafia, though, and the criminals shut down their operation and took their money.

Grant’s attraction to women, however, was something that was evident to Orry-Kelly. Kelly hated Grant’s attraction to blondes, yet also wrote, reassuringly, “though he always comes home to me.” Violence marred their relationship, with Grant throwing Kelly out of a moving vehicle in one incident. In one 1931 incident, after they both had started making it in Hollywood, Kelly had gotten fed up with Grant. The notoriously thrifty actor demanded Kelly return $365 for meals and boxing tickets, and the fed-up designer told him to go live with someone else — fellow actor Randolph Scott.

Grant’s relationship with Randolph Scott fueled rumors of his orientation. “He was adjusting to the mask of Cary Grant,” Kelly wrote. “A mask that became his career, a career that became Grant.” After leaving Kelly, Grant moved in with Scott, who took it extremely hard when Grant left him and married Virginia Cherrill in 1934, reportedly. He got over it, apparently, and the two men moved back in together after Grant’s marriage ended in 1935. After Scott divorced his own first wife in 1939, the two moved back in together.

Although he remarked that rumors of his homosexuality actually helped him get with women, who wanted to prove the rumor wrong, Cary Grant sued comedian Chevy Chase for implying that he was gay during an interview. This seemed to be an offhand comment to be taken lightly, but Grant wasn’t amused. Indeed, Grant sought $10 million before he and Chevy Chase settled out of court for a whopping $1 million, reportedly. It seems that Cary Grant got the last laugh in the end!

“As much as I loved him then – and how could I not as he was kind and funny and charming – I’d have to say I’d also fallen in love with his image and expected that image to make me happy, which was impossible,” Cannon summarized. After his death, “I felt so much love for him. I love him more now than when we were together — I understand him much better.” Cannon has most recently been working on a Broadway musical she intends to appear in, which will feature her ex-husband.